Lesbian Adventure Travellers Explore New Zealand

When lesbian adventure travellers Stephanie and Ziadee contacted us, they’d already planned a lot of their 9 day trip around New Zealand. They only wanted help with two days when Ziadee would be on her own while Stephanie jetted off to Australia to catch a concert.

“You’re going to Australia overnight to see a band, while you’re touring New Zealand?” I clarified. “Yes, it’s my all-time favourite band,” Stephanie explained, “I need to know Ziadee is well taken care of in New Zealand on her own while I’m gone,” she added. “And I’m feeling a little guilty ditching her to go to Australia for two days on our vacation,” she fessed up. This was a first for us!

Their fights were booked, as well as 4 night’s lodgings. And their list of ‘NZMustDo’ included hiking, swimming, kayaking, white water sledging, glowworm caving, bird watching, and wineries – impressive, to say the least. They also wanted to explore only our North Island – very cool! With so much on offer in the North Island, we were excited to work with them. Like many independent adventurous travellers, their research on New Zealand was extensive, and they’d created an excellent itinerary. Although knowing our roads and travel time, I was more than a little concerned that they’d be too busy every day to really enjoy themselves.

A chat

So we started, as we always do, with a frank discussion. What do you typically do on holiday? How long do you like to drive? What does a slow day look like? How fit are you, really? How far do you typically hike? … and so the questions went. At the end of our chat, they emailed me an itinerary they’d planned and completed in Scotland. It was just as packed with physical activities and driving as their desired New Zealand itinerary. And they’d wanted to do more on some days. “Ok, I get it” I responded, “You two are truly active travellers. Let’s see what else we can squeeze into this already awesome adventure you’ve planned.”

If you’re a lesbian adventure traveller yourself, take a look at their trip and see what you think. For Stephanie and Ziadee, it was perfect. Well almost… more on that below.

Day 1 – Auckland – Coromandel Peninsula:
Swimming & Walking 

On arrival in Auckland, they grabbed their rental car and headed to to Cook’s Beach on the Coromandel Peninsula. They’d hardly been in the country half an hour when they texted to say their kayaking trip at Cathedral Cove the next day had been cancelled due to high seas that wouldn’t be settled in time. ”We don’t care it’s raining and windy, we still want to get out on the water tomorrow,” they texted.  I wasn’t surprised. While most on the Coromandel hunkered down in this weather, these two wanted to get out and feel the full force of nature. I worked on an alternative while they spent the afternoon swimming at Flaxmill Bay and exploring the Shakespeare Cliff trail.

Day 2 – Coromandel Peninsula:
Kayaking, SUPping & Wines

With raging seas and no chance of kayaking gorgeous Cathedral Cove, Stephanie and Ziadee drove south, to my absolute favourite Coromandel beach, Whangamata. I grew up going to this beach as a kid, and still holiday there now. With 5 miles of white sand beach, a tranquil harbour, and a gentle estuary and tidal river, Whangamata offers all weather paddling that the other Coro beaches can’t beat. It’s also not highly touristed yet, which adds to its appeal.

A beach of your own (photo New Zealand Awaits)

With the winds at their backs, Stephanie and Ziadee had an invigorating kayak and SUP up the Otahu Estuary enjoying the rural views. They said their fantastic guide Pete, from our partners SurfSup, made the trip even better. Sipping local wine and munching on Italian appetizers at Mercury Bay Estate Vineyard to end their day, they kicked back and drank in the amazing views over Cooks Beach.

Day 3 – Coromandel Peninsula – Te Aroha:

Stephanie and Ziadee had planned to hike today, but after letting them know their chosen hike (the 6 hour Pinnacles Track near Thames) was closed for maintenance, we switched things around. They travelled from the Coro Peninsula through to Waihi to bike into the Karangahake Gorge. We booked them onto the most interesting and scenic section that meanders along the river and through the gorge. While many choose to bike in one direction, an out and back from Waihi offers a more flexible relaxed ride with no shuttles to meet, and the option of a unique steam train ride for the return if you’re feeling pooped!

Hauraki Rail Trail
Ziadee and Stephanie riding the scenic Hauraki Rail Trail (photo Ziadee Cambier)

Day 4 – Te Aroha:

Knowing Stephanie and Ziadee wanted a good climb with views, our alternative hike to the Pinnacles was the Wairere Falls in the Kaimai Ranges. With a stunning waterfall and great views over the plains of the Waikato, this shorter hike is a fantastic option.

Wairere Falls
Lookout point half way up the Wairere Falls (photo New Zealand Awaits)


Wairere Falls
Top of Wairere Falls (photo Ziadee Cambier)

Their nearby lodging was also tucked away in a town very few tourists visit, Te Aroha, ‘Mountain of Love’ in Maori. Appropriate for these lovers! A stroll across the parking lot from the lodging takes you to the Te Aroha mineral spas – perfect for an evening relaxation after hiking the falls.

Day 5 – Te Aroha – Rotorua:
Ziadee to Rotorua, Steph to Aussie!

With Stephanie jetting off to Australia for the night, Ziadee made the most of her time alone. She jumped on a local shuttle service and headed south to Rotorua. Te Puia, with its bubbling mud pools, steaming fumaroles, Pohutu geyser, and the New Zealand Maori Arts and Crafts Institute, is easy to spent few hours wandering, as Ziadee did. The schools of carving, weaving, and other traditional arts are open to visitors and you can watch and chat with the students learning the crafts of their culture.

Te Puia
Obligatory selfie at Te Puia (photo Ziadee Cambier)

Literally around the corner is The Redwoods – Whakarewarewa Forest, a 5600 hectare forest with walking and mountain biking trails. Hiking amidst these magnificent giant redwoods is just the ticket to stretch your legs if needed. Ziadee’s hotel for the night was a quick 5 minute walk to  Rotorua’s Eat Street – filled with numerous restaurants and bars where the choices are endless.

Day 6 – Rotorua – Tongariro:
Sledging & Ziplining

While Stephanie, sleep deprived and exhausted, boarded a plane in Sydney,  Ziadee was whizzing her way over white water rapids in New Zealand’s lush native bush. Yeah, this rocks!

Yeeehaaa! (photo Ziadee Cambier)

After a quick bite for lunch, Ziadee was off to meet some of our most passionate conservationists who combine adventure and conservation in one exciting native bush* ziplining experience. (*yes, we do call our forest ‘bush’). Ziadee listed this experience as one of her top three highlights in New Zealand.

Energy to burn! (photo Ziadee Cambier)

Meanwhile Stephanie was driving from Auckland airport to pick Ziadee up in Rotorua and continue through to Tongariro. The less than perfect part of their trip was this drive. As Ziadee wrote to me after the trip, “Our pace worked well for us except Saturday night – Steph’s travel plans back from Auckland were a bit too ambitious. We both got cranky driving to Tongariro and missed seeing Taupo in the dark!” Ah well.. the band was still worth it, right Steph?

Day 7 – Tongariro:

Everyone wants to hike the Tongariro Crossing. It’s commonly referred to as ‘the best one day walk in New Zealand’. However, like many iconic experiences around the world, with every man and his donkey doing them, it’s not necessarily the experience many want anymore. I’d warned Steph and Ziadee that it would be crowded. I’d talked with their lodging host about alternatives prior to their arrival since they only had one day to do it, and the weather can often cancel the best laid plans. “Don’t worry”, she assured me, “there are many other walks here just as phenomenal as the crossing and they can be done in all weather.” Well, as it turned out, the weather was fine, but Steph and Ziadee chose to follow the advice of their local host. “SO glad our host knew how crowded Tongariro crossing is…” Ziadee wrote to me after (apparently there were 2000 hikers that day), “…we would have been miserable if we’d done it.” She also added, “And don’t tell EVERYONE about the hike we did – our hosts don’t want that one to get overrun, too.” Don’t worry Ziadee, we promise, we won’t!

Tongariro National Park
Tongariro secret trail (photo Ziadee Cambier)

Day 8 – Tongariro – Pukeatua:
Glowworm Caving & Nighttime Kiwi Calling

Steph and Ziadee’s second to last day looped them back from Tongariro to Waitomo, famous for its glowworm caves. There are many cave tours on offer in this area, from 45 minutes to 7 hours, from dry to wet, walking, in a boat, ziplining, rafting… choosing what is best for you can be a challenge. If you appreciate nature, want to get up close and personal with the glowworms, and stay dry, then you’ll want to experience this magical wonder with Spellbound, which is what Steph and Ziadee ultimately chose. Spellbound makes sure you have the time, group size, silence, and a knowledgeable guide, to really appreciate these unique creatures. (If you’re heading to the South Island, talk with us about a great glowworm trip there too).

Cave exploring (photo Ziadee Cambier)

For their last night in New Zealand, Steph and Ziadee wanted to explore our native bush at night. It’s hard to describe what this experience is like. Think Jurassic Park-like primordial rainforest, the sounds of teeming insects, bugs, and nocturnal birds… in darkness so absolute you can’t see your hands. Most New Zealanders have never seen a Kiwi (our native bird, not a New Zealander!) in its natural environment, but Steph and Ziadee had the privilege of spotting one this night. They rated this experience as one of their highlights.

Day 9 Pukeatua – Auckland:
Birdwatching & Wines

Experiencing our native bush at night is one thing, but Steph and Ziadee returned to the eco-sanctuary this morning to hear the morning birdsong and experience the bush in daylight. We’re so proud of Sanctuary Mountain, a world class conservation project on our back doorstep. And we love to share it with our guests. In addition to doing important conservation and restoration work, their vision is to inspire environmental and wildlife conservation in others. We hope Steph and Ziadee returned  home inspired.

With time to kill before their flight for the U.S. they stopped by Villa Maria vineyards near the airport. It was a perfect end to their adventure-filled, nature focused trip around our North Island.

Working with Stephanie and Ziadee was a blast. They know how they travel, their energy levels, and what they want to experience. We know what’s on offer in New Zealand, and the best places and people to do it with. They were really open to listening to our suggestions, tweaks, and ideas for better routes, activities, and new ideas, like the ziplining and sanctuary mountain night tour. It’s exactly how we love to work, helping you make the most of your time and money in our great little country. Stephanie and Ziadee were also awesome in the feedback they gave us after their trip. They gave concrete suggestions that we’re totally incorporating into the next Lesbian adventure trip we plan. Thanks ladies, you rock!

Are you a Lesbian Adventure Traveller?

If so, contact us now. We’d love to help you plan an adventure filled trip in New Zealand.

Nicky and Lisa Discover LGBTQ Friendly New Zealand

For the second of our interviews with our trusted LGBT locals, we chatted with Nicky and Lisa. These Irish gals found LGBTQ friendly paradise in New Zealand, have made it their home, started their own cycle tour business, and become Kiwis!

Biking New Zealand back roads
Biking New Zealand’s back roads

How did you end up in New Zealand?

Nicky and I first set foot on the land of the Long White Cloud in December 2009. We were in New Zealand to have a holiday of a lifetime. We did some extensive research into what we wanted to do once we got here but hadn’t thought about whether or not it was a country where LGBTQ travellers would be welcomed or shunned. To be honest we were just prepared to roll with whatever attitude was put forward, after all we were living in Northern Ireland at the time, a country that was and still isn’t LGBTQ friendly in many ways.

The first stop on our holiday was a sailing trip at the Bay of Islands. We met the couple of guys who were running the trip and to our delight we realised that they weren’t just business partners but life partners as well. So just by sheer luck the first Kiwis we met were gay! This really set up the rest of our holiday. Our next stop was back to Auckland to a B&B in Ponsonby. We were greeted by our host who, without any questions to us, said that he had a great film for us to watch about New Zealand’s first transgender Member of Parliament. Immediately this easy attitude towards LGBTQ issues put us at ease in this fabulous country.

Upon our return to Northern Ireland, we both realised that New Zealand felt more like home than Northern Ireland did. It was hardly surprising that very quickly we made the biggest decision of our lives. We decided to emigrate to New Zealand.

Mapua Beach
Biker’s Paradise

A year later we had our visas, sold our house, packed up our belongings and placed them in the shipping container. Flights were booked, and we and the cat returned to New Zealand as residents.

Where are you living now and is it LGBTQ friendly?

We settled in the top of South Island in a small village called Mapua, about 30 mins drive out of Nelson. We bought a house out in the rural area just outside the village itself. As we started to settle into our new surroundings and life, it quickly became apparent that we were not the only lesbians in the village. In fact, we were not the only lesbians on our road! There were at least 2 LGBTQ couples within 4km stretch of road.

The more we became integrated into our local society the more LGBTQ couples we met. Mapua has a population of around 3,000 and with the amount LGBTQ families in the area we could probably run our own Pride March.

As Mapua/Nelson region has so many out-LGBTQ families it has never been an issue for us to live in any way that is not honest. We live our lives quite openly and are fully accepted as a couple both in social circles and business.

Bikers at beach
Soak in the views

Tell us about your cycle tour business.

Cycling is a passion of ours and our region lends itself so well to be explored by bike so in 2011 we set up our cycle tour business, Wheelie Fantastic. One of our first group bookings that year was from a company in America that caters for gay men. They booked a group of 14 with us and have been returning each year since. Many of them talk to us about how refreshing it is to be in a country where sexuality is not an issue.

New Zealand road cycling
From trail riders to road cyclists, Wheelie Fantastic has a ride for you!

Our local knowledge allows us to create a wide range of cycling experiences in the Nelson Tasman area. We create rides to suit your budget, length of time you have, and your riding ability, from trail riders to road bike enthusiasts. Tours can be self-guided, guided and/or vehicle supported. Most importantly, we help you discover the hidden gems of our area.

New Zealand biking
Mapua’s diverse landscape makes for fun rides

What would you tell LGBTQ travellers considering New Zealand?

We believe you will be welcomed into Aotearoa with a genuine warm reception no matter where you are from and secondly you will be treated with respect and equality regardless of your sexuality.

Nicky and I have travelled to other parts of the world where we have felt it to be impossible to act as anything but friends. But here in New Zealand we are proud to live our life as we are and never hide our sexuality. In New Zealand, we have found a truly liberal minded country and we are now proudly Kiwis. We are proud to be lesbian Kiwis. Just make sure you are an All Blacks supporter (That’s our national rugby team). That’s all Kiwis really want to know about you. Whether you’re LGBTQ or not they don’t care, but just shout loudly for the ALL Blacks.

Nicky and Lisa take care of every last detail to create the perfect ride for you and their outstanding level of service is second to none!  Join us on our  South Island Sojourn in March 2018 to meet Nicky and Lisa and ride the gorgeous Mapua region with them. You won’t regret it!